Tuesday, May 31, 2011
What's Your Deserve Level?
Another concept that I have learned from this month's success magazine via Joel Harper is deserve level. Do I think I deserve to be in shape? Do I think I deserve to succeed in life and family etc?
Something to think about. In my life there are certain things that I value so highly, that I think I deserve, or my family deserves, that I do what it takes to get it or give it. Pragmatically, Joel talks about finding a way to transfer that deserve level to areas of your life where for some reason or another you have not accepted it.
I really do not think this is an easy one, but I do think it is incredibly important. Think about how you can raise your deserve level in an area that you are unsatisfied with.
Thursday, May 26, 2011
Why "Do Overs" are ok
I have an aunt who I respect greatly. I would say that she has not had the easiest pathway, and at one point needed to do over, in her 40's. So she did. Got a law degree, became a lawyer, and is now, and will retire a judge. Nice do over!
When I was 16 I wanted a studio. I wanted to record my own music, I wanted to be that guy. Well it wasn't until about 5 years ago that I finally got one, and I feel like every song I produce I am getting better and closer to doing something of the quality I dreamed of all those years ago.
One thing I will tell you, is that you need support. In life you need encouragement, and it is important to surround yourself with the delusionally supportive (my children really think I am famous!), the unconditionally supportive (my beautiful wife speaks the truth in love) and the constructively supportive (I have a few voices that have generously critiqued my progress these past few years, and they are helping me get better). I would suggest none of the purely critical, it is hard enough sticking to things when you receive good feedback, negativity is just hard.
I can't encourage you enough. If you have found it and are doing it, good for you. You are blessed, keep doing it and get better!! For the rest of us, start now. Do over from scratch. Find a way to do your passion. I am not talking about being reckless and quitting a job. I am talking about being passionate and chasing a dream.
Yes it is a roller coaster and perspective is everything. Find ways to keep perspective. Last night I was up far too late, tired and bleary eyed, producing the next song, and it was great. The process was great, I kind of felt like that guy, even if just for a while.
Wednesday, May 25, 2011
How To Do Good

Obviously a big piece of my life is my day job at Speroway, the children's charity I work for. One of my daily challenges is trying inspire, awake, educate, and advocate for and on behalf of children who can't speak for themselves.
But how can you or I make a difference? How can we make a start? It really is one act at a time. No matter what you are trying to do in life, find a very small way to make a start and do it. A $10 online donation to a charity of repute, volunteering somewhere close by your house, dropping a meal off to an out of work neighbour, you get the idea. Pick one thing and do it. It will lead to another, it just will.
Tuesday, May 24, 2011
New Canadian Countdown
Well I just was interviewed on the New Canadian Countdown last Saturday night with James Kurtis. Great time! I will post the interview this week sometime. In the meantime if you click on the link above you can vote for my new single ("I Will Bless The Lord") to see if I can get in the top 6 at 6 this Saturday. If I get in I get more plays, if I don't then it is one and done....like the March Madness basketball tourney. I would love your support.
Look for interview in the next couple of days...

Friday, May 20, 2011
Why The Church In Canada is Failing
I would suggest the gospel in its purest form is this: Mark 1:15 14 After John was put in prison, Jesus went into Galilee, proclaiming the good news of God. 15 “The time has come,” he said. “The kingdom of God has come near. Repent and believe the good news!” This of course echoes John the Baptist in Matthew 3:2.
Do you hear that in your church often? Ever? Accepting that Jesus was a real historic figure is not accepting the gospel. Accepting Jesus in your heart, whatever that means, is not the gospel. We must realize that we are sinners. We are imperfect, and that to be in relationship with God requires us to actually feel and acknowledge we are wrong. We don't hear that often or ever because the real meaning of repentance is harsh. It feels so 1950's hell fire and brimstone. The word repent rubs us wrong. It requires is to humble ourselves, to turn from our wicked ways.
But we don't see ourselves as wicked do we. News flash, we are. I am. You are. So what is really wrong? People outside the church look at us and see wicked people. Proud people, who think they don't need to repent. A few of them might even feel they need God so they check out the church and hear, well, self-help sermons. Feel good sermons. The problem with that of course, is that they need a remedy. They need to deal with the wickedness they are feeling. They need to hear the good news, that they can repent, turn from their wicked ways, and know God.
How will they hear, if we don't tell them? Who else is going to proclaim the glorious and difficult message, The kingdom of God is coming, repent and believe the good news! Just saying.....
Wednesday, May 18, 2011
Radio Interview This Saturday Night
Monday, May 16, 2011
Why You Have to Keep Moving
I believe this is true of the human condition. If we don't move forward purposefully, our best case is we stay status quo, but more often than not we move backward. Notice I did not say aggressively. Life is a marathon, and "sprinting" takes too much effort for the gains that you will get. Purposeful, reflective, forward movement will garner great results. The enemy to this kind of movement is no movement at all.
Wednesday, May 11, 2011
The Toughest Thing About Leadership Is...
But all too often our leaders, our school principals, our pastors, our executive directors and presidents, have taken the stance that they have arrived. That they paid their dues, that they suffered, and now you must suffer. They haven't learned from the experiences they have had, they attend conferences and hear, "you are the man" or "exercise your authority", even though what was said was "be a humble servant", "bring out the best in your people", "care for them".
Unfortunately what I see over and over is a wake of followers who are uninspired and often bitter, because they see the hypocrisy. They know the heart, or lack thereof, behind their leader. Jesus Christ said that "wisdom will be proved right by her actions". Interesting.
The tough thing is next steps. What if your leader is letting you down, big time. What should you do? For starters...leave. Find another job, find another church. Harsh, maybe, easy, no. But as a follower, it is the only thing of integrity you can do. Don't fight, don't criticize, follow someone worth following, or lead something yourself, but be warned....this blog is for you should you take that route. Don't let history repeat itself.
If by some chance you are a leader reading this, and you are failing, repent to all and change your ways, it's not too late.
The reality is this, many are terrible followers, not because they should be leaders, but because they are proud, arrogant people who don't want to admit that anyone does or should have rule over them. Many are terrible leaders, becuse they don't want to admit they don't care about anyone but themselves, and they are intellectually overmatched and have been since they landed at the top.
Those that are offended by either of those statments are most likely guilty of one of the charges. To the rest who have gone into some version of self-assessment, I wish you well...at least you are humble enough to think you could be either!
Tuesday, May 10, 2011
3 Songs in 4 Months is not bad....
That being said I am very pleased with how things have come out so far (all links to iTunes for a listen):
January: Beautiful For You a song about the opportunity we have as the church to serve God by serving those without parents.
February: I Want To Tell You - hey it was February, I had to record a love song!!
March/April: I Will Bless The Lord - The first worship song of this year's singles, but certainly not the last. Remember lead sheets can be had for free here.
I will admit, the production of a song a month has proved somewhat grueling, but I do feel like it is taking me down a path towards the goal of creating better more impactful music.
Monday, May 09, 2011
Co-Writing Is Not That Scary
One of the things that Chris does is set-up song writing clinics for worship leaders across Canada to get things moving. They already have an EP released with the fruit of that labour. I went through a crash course and co-wrote a song with an artist named Derrick Drover. He apparently sang the song in a showcase last Friday night. I have co-written songs before with my old band mate Fraser McCulloch of Heart Mind and Soul fame, but sitting in a room with someone and pounding out something from scratch is quite another thing. I am actually looking forward to finding a way to do this again soon, in the end it wasn't that scary, but I am sure that speaks in part to Derrick's patience!!
Wednesday, May 04, 2011
Are You a Hoarder, No really?
I suppose the thing that has been remarkable to me is how much we have purged, how little is coming into our home, and how 3 plus years after moving into a smaller space I still feel like I have too much stuff. Even though we have purged I still feel myself holding onto things. Trophies from when I was a kid, school projects, old music recordings and videos of live performances and TV appearances.
Lately, I have been in purge mode again. This stuff has been weighing me down. I want a simpler "cleaner" life. I need to right size my stuff to fit my space. Although not of the epic proportions of some reality TV shows, I am a hoarder, and it is time to purge once and for all. David Allen of getting things done fame talks about how important it is to take the weight of your mind to reduce stress and actually allow you to get things done.
A sidebar, I have very recently started using TeuxDeux on my desktop and iPhone to help get things out of my mind and on to a task list. Having the sync ability and the portability of the iPhone is helping immensely. I will let you know how sustainable I find this latest foray into organization and control in digital list form.
Tuesday, May 03, 2011
Quitter
Monday, May 02, 2011
Is There Any Room for Space?
As a part-time artist with a young family and a full-time job I get it. Technology can often be a friend, helping reduce costs and distribute the music in ways that could never be done before. But the universal access to many broadcast platforms causes a reverberation of white noise that one is always trying to break through to be heard.
I am not sure what the balance is, but I know I need to spend more time in the "quiet" of my writing space, unplugged, free to clear my mind of the dull roar of the social network sphere to write and produce. I am sure you have your music equivalent. Are you struggling with creating room for space? How do you try and create those art fashioning times?